An Indonesian woman is shocked to learn that her 10-month-old husband is actually a woman, despite the fact that they often ‘have sex’.
The 22-year-old wife, identified only as NA, has now pressed charges against her ex-husband for cheating.
“I’m still afraid. I shake when I leave the house, ”a report published in the local edition of Tribun News quoted the abandoned bride as saying.
According to the website, N.A. first met her husband, Anaf Arrafif, on the dating app Tantan last year.
Arrafif allegedly claimed to be a New York-trained doctor, and they soon hit it off in a message.
The couple met in person in May 2021 after Arrafif traveled to North America’s hometown of Jambi. Soon Arrafif proposed, and in July they got married.
ON THE. admitted to being intimate with her spouse during their marriage, stating that she believed they had had penetrative intercourse.
However, she admitted that she was asked “not to look directly at Arrafife’s genitals” and that her “eyes were covered with a cloth” whenever it got hot.
NA also claimed that Arrafif only stripped when the lights were off, so the sex was “in a state of blackout,” according to Suara.com.
Although N.A.’s mother was reportedly enamored with Arrafife prior to their marriage, she soon grew suspicious when it was revealed that he did not actually have a job.
Arrafif moved in with N.A. and her mother and immediately started asking for money. In the following months, N.A.’s meddling mother more and more convinced that her “son-in-law” was a fraud. She also began to become skeptical that Arrafif was male and attempted to obtain identification papers.
In April of this year, she finally confronted Arrafife and ordered him to strip naked. Arrafif is said to have confessed at this point that he was a woman, who was actually named Erayani Arrafif.
ON THE. and her mother went to the police, and Arrafife was reportedly charged with fraud.
The swindler admitted to the police that they tricked N.A. think that she is having penetrative sex using her fingers.
It is currently unclear whether Arrafife faces jail time if found guilty of fraud. A court date has not yet been announced.
